Heather

Calluna vulgaris

"Those who are always seeking the companionship of anyone who may be available, as they find it necessary to discuss their own affairs with others, no matter whom it may be. They are unhappy if they have to be alone for any length of time."

—Edward Bach, The Twelve Healers

Heather has a high need for attention and contact with another person, and a core experience of loneliness that makes them yearn for connection with another. However, the energy dynamic in their relationships will tend to be one-sided. They may be very talkative and have little capacity to listen or focus on others' needs or interests, thus appearing self-absorbed or self-centered.

Keywords: Loneliness, neediness or need for attention, overly focused on one's own needs, difficulty focusing on the needs of others, loquacity

Positive state: Ability to listen, to step into others' shoes, and to be present for others